Dating for Generators and Manifesting Generators

Dating for Generators and Manifesting Generators

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In this article on dating for Generators and Manifesting Generators, I am sharing how to leverage your energy type when it comes to dating and navigating connections with new people. It is also worth noting that information also applies to finding new friends.

As always, this is a high-level review because it is only possible to dig into all of the nuances by sitting in front of a specific bodygraph chart. 🙂 

For additional information on how human design can support dating and relationships see my related articles below.

How to Find Your Energy Type 

  • Go to and go to “Get Your Chart”.
  • Input your birth details including birth day, birth time, and birth location.
    • NOTE – Information in the bodygraph chart is VERY sensitive to birth time so it is important to have an accurate birth time if possible.

Energy Types and Dating

  • The most important advice Human Design can offer when it comes to dating is to honor your strategy and authority as you are moving through the world and meeting new people. 
  • For those who are new to Human Design…
    • Strategy is linked to your energy type and it tells you how you are designed to use your energy to attract the things that are meant for you in life.
    • Authority is specific to your bodygraph chart and it tells you how you gain clarity to make decisions.
  • Simply following our strategy seems like something that won’t make a big impact. It may even feel ridiculous but in theory, the more we can lean into our strategy (and authority) and trust that it will lead us to the right places, opportunities, and people – the more flow we will experience in life including the dating journey. It doesn’t hurt to try this approach especially if you are not seeing the results you want. 
  • Since Authority is specific to your unique chart, I will focus on strategy in this article. See the information below for each energy type and how they can leverage their strategy when dating.

Generators and Manifesting Generators

  • Generator and Manifesting Generator strategy is “to respond”.
  • The “to respond” strategy for Generators and Manifesting Generators is to be aware of the signs, ideas, events, projects, and people that the universe is putting in front of them and paying attention to which causes excitement that they can feel in their body. If the excitement isn’t there, that is the universe saying “Don’t do it”. This strategy is NOT about actively looking for things that are going to light them up. It is more about the things that excite them as they are moving through life.
  • The Gen and MG must learn not to question their instincts and gut responses. They should NOT try to fit it into a narrative and/or compare themselves to others. 
  • Applying this to dating
    • DO pay attention to the initial gut response about a person and honor that gut response. If you get a bad feeling, walk away. If you get a good feeling, pursue it.
    • DON’T get on the apps unless the experience is enjoyable to you and DO get off the apps when they are no longer exciting to you.
    • DO be patient and aware, and wait for the universe to put things and situations in front of you to respond to. 
    • DON’T actively go looking for things to respond to.

Related Articles

  • All Human Design articles on my site – CLICK HERE
  • How I Use Human Design in My Relationships CLICK HERE
  • Human Design and Relationships CLICK HERE
  • The Energy Types in Human DesignCLICK HERE
  • Navigating Love and Relationships – Human Design Perspective CLICK HERE
  • Improving Romantic Relationships Through Human Design – CLICK HERE
  • Dating and Profile in Human Design – CLICK HERE

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