Dating for Manifestors

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In this article, I am sharing how to leverage your energy type as a Manifestor Energy Type when it comes to dating and navigating connections with new people. It is also worth noting that information also applies to finding new friends.

As always, this is a high-level review because it is only possible to dig into all of the nuances by sitting in front of a specific bodygraph chart. 🙂 

For additional information on how human design can support dating and relationships see my related articles below.

How to Find Your Energy Type 

  • Go to and go to “Get Your Chart”.
  • Input your birth details including birth day, birth time, and birth location.
    • NOTE – Information in the bodygraph chart is VERY sensitive to birth time so it is important to have an accurate birth time if possible.

Energy Types and Dating

  • The most important advice Human Design can offer when it comes to dating is to honor your strategy and authority as you are moving through the world and meeting new people. 
  • For those who are new to Human Design…
    • Strategy is linked to your energy type and it tells you how you are designed to use your energy to attract the things that are meant for you in life.
    • Authority is specific to your bodygraph chart and it tells you how you gain clarity to make decisions.
  • Simply following our strategy seems like something that won’t make a big impact. It may even feel ridiculous but in theory, the more we can lean into our strategy (and authority) and trust that it will lead us to the right places, opportunities, and people – the more flow we will experience in life including the dating journey. It doesn’t hurt to try this approach especially if you are not seeing the results you want. 
  • Since Authority is specific to your unique chart, I will focus on strategy in this article. See the information below for each energy type and how they can leverage their strategy when dating.


  • Manifestor strategy is “to inform”
  • Manifestors do not need to wait for something external to happen before they act. They are meant to follow their impulses and then inform others around them about what they are doing, reading, thinking about, etc. These impulses are a very specific feeling that tells the Manifestor to do something that comes out of nowhere. They don’t know why or can’t make sense of it. This urge cannot be traced back to logic.
  • Applying this strategy to dating
    • DON’T assume that “informing” is an aggressive or masculine approach (i.e., “I am doing x, y, z)
    • DO inform the individuals you are interested in that you are interested and it can be done in a softer way. For example, share information, something you learned recently, something you see happening in the future. If you identify as female, informing can be done in a subtle, demure, and feminine way.
    • DO honor your urges when it comes to dating apps – get on when you have the urge to do so and hop off when you are done with it. Don’t let your logic or mind override your impulses.

Related Articles

  • All Human Design articles on my site – CLICK HERE
  • How I Use Human Design in My Relationships CLICK HERE
  • Human Design and Relationships CLICK HERE
  • The Energy Types in Human DesignCLICK HERE
  • Navigating Love and Relationships – Human Design Perspective CLICK HERE
  • Improving Romantic Relationships Through Human Design – CLICK HERE
  • Dating and Profile in Human Design CLICK HERE

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