Dating for Projectors

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In this article, I am sharing how to leverage your energy type as a Projector Energy Type when it comes to dating and navigating connections with new people. It is also worth noting that information also applies to finding new friends.

As always, this is a high-level review because it is only possible to dig into all of the nuances by sitting in front of a specific bodygraph chart. 🙂 

For additional information on how human design can support dating and relationships see my related articles below.

How to Find Your Energy Type 

  • Go to and go to “Get Your Chart”.
  • Input your birth details including birth day, birth time, and birth location.
    • NOTE – Information in the bodygraph chart is VERY sensitive to birth time so it is important to have an accurate birth time if possible.

Energy Types and Dating

  • The most important advice Human Design can offer when it comes to dating is to honor your strategy and authority as you are moving through the world and meeting new people. 
  • For those who are new to Human Design…
    • Strategy is linked to your energy type and it tells you how you are designed to use your energy to attract the things that are meant for you in life.
    • Authority is specific to your bodygraph chart and it tells you how you gain clarity to make decisions.
  • Simply following our strategy seems like something that won’t make a big impact. It may even feel ridiculous but in theory, the more we can lean into our strategy (and authority) and trust that it will lead us to the right places, opportunities, and people – the more flow we will experience in life including the dating journey. It doesn’t hurt to try this approach especially if you are not seeing the results you want. 
  • Since Authority is specific to your unique chart, I will focus on strategy in this article. See the information below for each energy type and how they can leverage their strategy when dating.


  • Projector strategy is “wait to be invited”
  • “Wait to be invited” does not mean that the Projector doesn’t have power. There is power in waiting and making invitations come. The things that come to the Projector are in direct proportion to how well they recognize themselves, how great they think they are, and how grateful they are for their gifts.
  • Remember, that not every invitation is energetically correct for you – will need to consult your authority to determine
  • Applying this strategy to dating
    • DO indulge in your passions, learn new things, and follow your curiosity. 
    • If interested in trying dating apps, and you identify as female DO NOT use Bumble because the female goes first and you are here to be invited. If you identify as male, Bumble is worth trying.
    • DO Be Patient and trust the process of waiting for the right invitation. Patience is crucial for a Projector because pushing for connections can lead to frustration. Allow the universe to bring the right people and opportunities into your life at the right time.

Related Articles

  • All Human Design articles on my site – CLICK HERE
  • How I Use Human Design in My Relationships CLICK HERE
  • Human Design and Relationships CLICK HERE
  • The Energy Types in Human DesignCLICK HERE
  • Navigating Love and Relationships – Human Design Perspective CLICK HERE
  • Improving Romantic Relationships Through Human Design – CLICK HERE
  • Dating and Profile in Human Design CLICK HERE

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